Geofenced rooms
Wondering who's single right where you are (university, restaurant, church, etc.)? Enter the venue's virtual room, send a like, match and meet instantly.
Humans are not cars!
Filtering only by your own preferences works for things you buy, not for people: they have their own preferences too.
Find the right one among the right ones
With Motéma, you look for people who are also looking for you. That's where real interest and solid connections start.
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Everything around dating
Motéma puts together the tools to connect in moments no other dating app reaches, and to make dating easier along the way. So you can focus on expressing yourself, not on a war between the sexes that makes people give up on love.
With Motéma, we want people to believe in love again.
Ways to connect
Motéma is there wherever and whenever the spark happens, so you never miss a chance to connect.
Spotted
Noticed someone but missed your chance? Snap something only they would recognize and post it with a line that tells them it's you. Everyone nearby sees it for 12 hours.
Travel match
Create or join a room that moves with your train, bus or boat. Find your daily commute crush, chat with singles on your route, then sit together and make the trip fun.
Venue VIP tables
Book a table. Top VIP tables will be listed at the virtual room so people can send join requests. like back, connect and meet instantly.
Match requirements
Optionally set what people have to do before they can send you a like.
Best first date
Match and meet up within 2 weeks. Set your calendar availability, pick your favorite places, and let them suggest the perfect first date before sending a like. Trust-point based.
Picky mode
Set up a custom intake form on your profile and let people answer your questions before they can like you, so you can spot red flags beforehand.
Double date
Pair up with a friend. Whoever likes you sends 1 to 3 of their friends for your friend to match with too.
Built for real commitment
Exclusive chat
Send your match a request for an exclusive chat. Once they accept, you each talk to only one person at a time and follow a path of two mandatory dates, each one preceded by an open talking phase.
Want to talk to someone else? Unmatch your exclusive match first.
Me & You
For dating apps, a couple that works out is 2 customers gone. The business model is to keep you paying forever, looking for love.
Let's flip it. Motéma introduces a subscription for couples: you pay Motéma to keep watch, and neither of you can date anyone else on the app. Any couple can use it.
Next up: pick the other dating apps you both agree to quit, and Motéma's legal team checks every month that nobody breaks the deal.
An amazing dating story
See how easy it is to plan a date in 2026.
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Date planner and trust points
Motéma makes it simple to agree on a plan with your match, and makes sure you're both equally committed to it.
Clear roles from the start
Every plan starts by answering the awkward question: am I taking them out, are they taking me, or are we splitting? Then Motéma hands out the roles: one of you leads the planning, the other chips in.
Confirmed means confirmed
Once you both confirm, the date is set, and backing out costs trust points. So people only say yes to dates they really mean to go to, and you can stop worrying about last-minute cancellations.
Rescheduling, made fair
Life happens, so you get one reschedule, free up to 48 hours before. Closer to the date it costs trust points, because by then a table may be booked and other invitations turned down.
Built on trust points
Every date you show up to earns a trust point; cancelling late or not showing up costs two. You see how reliable your match is before you plan, and they see the same about you.
For venues, events & shops
Motéma is a way to connect, and where people meet, there's service. That's why Motéma lets venues, event creators and shops offer their services to make connecting more fun and easy.
- Create products and manage orders
- Accept reservations
- Dating games and tools
- Sell event tickets
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Dating should be intentional
Privacy and matching rules are designed to keep connecting easy, intentional and safe, giving people back the happiness of connecting.
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