Motema — Match With Awareness
Real connections at real venues. Health filters. Multiple modes.
Motéma — the intention-driven dating app
Smart Chat Rules To Increase Engagement
Time boxed ping-pong system and penalties for frequent ghosting — profiles of users who don’t actively seek partners are deprioritized in others’ feeds.
Take me Out Mode
A trust-based system to cut frustrations for dating app users and go on a first date within 2 weeks
Instant Meet-up Mode
Match with singles already in the same venue as you to meet instantly
Picky Mode
Create questions they must answer before liking you.
Double Date Mode
Fun and safe — you'll like our approach.
Health-based Filters
Sickle cell genotype and STDs filters to promote awareness and increase compatibility. (Not available for the first release)
Exclusivity Toggle
1-match focus, minimum-dates requirement.
Mutual App Deletion
Commit together to a 3-12 months cooldown.
Friends as Wingmen
Friends recommend matches anonymously.
Why Choose Us
A dating app designed for real connections
Health-Based Filters
Use verified health check results as advanced filters to ensure safety, inclusivity, and compatibility—while keeping the experience open to everyone.
Real-Venue Connections
Geofenced discovery within 100m of venues. See who's there, send treats, and build real momentum.
Multiple Matching Modes
Choose your path: standard way, double dates, take me out, or compatibility questions. Every connection type welcomed.
Intent-Driven Connections
For those here to truly date, not just talk. Smart chat rules turn matches into real plans—or natural goodbyes within 30 days.
Three Additional Ways to Match
Meet the way that feels right for you
Compatibility Mode
Answer custom questions before matching. For the picky—deep compatibility checks ensure fit.
- •Custom intake forms
- •Values alignment
- •Serious intentions
Take Me Out Mode
Skip the small talk. Set your first date venue, time, and availability. Direct & decisive.
- •Skip the chat games
- •Real-world plans first
- •Time & place set
Double Date Mode
Like someone as usual—but with a twist. Before liking, you can add up to three friends. If you match, their friend must match with one of yours for the date to go live.
- •One main match between you two
- •Up to three friends invited
- •Their friend pairs with one of yours
Friend Recommendation Network
Subtle matchmaking powered by real connections
Direct Friend Recommendation
Know two single friends who might click? Add their names and phone numbers. If both have your number saved, the app privately recommends them to each other.
- •You know both people personally
- •Both have your number saved
- •Private and mutual discovery
Mutual Connection Recommendation
When you know one single person and a friend knows another, you can team up to recommend them. The app confirms that both introducers know each other through their phone contacts before privately suggesting the two singles to each other.
- •Two friends collaborate on a match
- •Introducer links verified via contacts
- •Suggestions stay private and authentic
Privacy & Authenticity
Recommendations blend seamlessly with regular matches, so no one knows if a suggestion came from friends or the app itself. Users can turn off friend-based recommendations anytime in settings.
- •No visible difference between app and friend suggestions
- •Full control in privacy settings
- •Trust built on verified social circles
Smart Chat Rules
Real momentum, real timelines
24-Hour First Message
Last to match has 24 hours to break the ice. No pressure, but momentum counts.
3-Day Response Window
Got a message? Respond within 3 days. New messages don't reset the timer—keep it moving.
30-Day Chat Expiry
Chats expire after 30 days. Time to meet or move on. 14 days for double dates and take me out modes.
More Smart Rules
Ready to Find Your Match?
Join thousands of health-conscious singles finding real connections in real venues.
Health checks • Real venues • Real connections • Available on iOS & Android